Yes. Parental alienation happens when one parent tries to turn the child against the other parent, usually by commenting badly about them or acting negatively. In North Carolina, courts focus on what’s best for the child when deciding custody. If there is proof of parental alienation, it can affect the court’s decision since it is harmful to the child’s mental and psychological well-being.
How do you know if you are alienated from your child?
Some common signs of parental alienation are:
- Restricted time: One parent severely limits the child’s time with the other parent, especially against court orders.
- Negative comments: One parent makes mean remarks about the other parent and blames them for the divorce.
- False accusations: One parent makes unfounded claims of abuse or neglect against the other parent.
- Emotional manipulation: One parent threatens to withhold affection if the child shows positive feelings about the other parent.
If the courts find that a parent engages in any of these actions, it can lead to a change in custody arrangements to protect the child’s well-being. Judges may favor the parent who supports a healthy relationship with the other parent.
How do you address it?
Dealing with parental alienation is challenging, but here are some steps you can take:
- Maintain a positive relationship with your child: Make sure they feel safe, loved, and valued with you.
- Discuss the issue with the other parent: Parents sometimes do not realize how their actions affect the child.
- Keep detailed records of any instances of alienation: Emails, texts, and witness accounts about missed visits, negative comments, or interference with communication can be very important.
- Consider involving a family therapist or counselor: They can work with you and your child to rebuild your relationship.
If the alienation continues, you should seek legal help. You can file a motion in court to address the alienation seeking a custody evaluation or a change in custody arrangements. Courts might also order supervised visitation or reunification therapy to help rebuild the relationship between you and your child.
You have the right to be in your child’s life
Your bond with your child is irreplaceable and vital to their well-being. If you face challenges in keeping this connection, know that you have legal resources available to protect your child’s best interests.